She never begins an attack, nor, when once engaged, ever surrenders: She is therefore an emblem of magnanimity and true courage. ... she never wounds 'till she has generously given notice, even to her enemy, and cautioned him against the danger of treading on her.
-Benjamin Franklin


Friday, February 4, 2011

Overheard on Teh Facebooks

A friend posted a status concerning her feelings for the ultra-security, prison-esque feeling of their local elementary school. She felt, despite having submitted to a criminal background check to be approved as a chaperone and being regularly seen in the school, that for the school to continue to coldly treat her like a total stranger was uncorrect. "I am no criminal, and my son isn't, either," she said.

I know how she feels. I have family attending the elementary school I went to when I was a kid. Once, when I was in town, I went with her father to pick one of them up from school as a surprise. I was literally chilled to walk in and see Lexan walls and shit.

Not cool.

I joked - sort of - about it being For The Children™ a bit. Some other comments ensued, and someone finally came in talking about how you might not be a criminal, but the person behind you may be, and how having worked for the local PD opened her eyes, etc.

Naturally, I could not allow someone on Al Gore's Internets to be wrong.

My comment:

Not to knock [the local] PD (for the elitist, tinted-window-patrol-car, SWAT team they're all trying to be) or anything, but the problem goes way past the occasional bad guy that may walk into a school and go postal. The problem is that we're being conditioned - intentionally or not - to believe that we are unable to, and therefore forbidden from, protecting ourselves and our children. Safety is to be solely provided by the government. I appreciate your point, Griselda, but unfortunately it only goes to put even more light on the bigger issue.

I was going to add something witty here, but after re-reading my comment I realize that there's not much else I can say about it.

Other than the fact that the situation is wrong, and completely fucked up.



tweaker

2 comments:

  1. My daughters' old school, I started the year out by getting into an argument with the principal over their new security measures. They installed some system that scanned IDs and called a halt to the old practice of allowing parents to wait for dismissal outside the classroom. He was visibly surprised when I called him on the logic of it. Once you trot out "for the good of the kids", everyone's supposed to just shut up & go along.

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  2. As to your comment - that could not have been said better. Thank you.

    Brigid Jr, raised by adopted parents, went to Columbine. Need I say more.

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